One may think
there is nothing influential about an old ordinary Korean woman who is only a
five foot tall. What if I told you she is the most loving woman I have known in
my life? What if, what if I told you that when she breathes out cigarette, the
smell is rather sophisticated and sweet? This is my second aunt from my father’s
side. My dad is the last child out of ten so my aunt is twenty years older than
my father.
When my mother left the house for work, my aunt came and lived with us. She raised me since I was a baby till grade five; she is my second mother. She cooked the best food and always made sure I had breakfast. When I came back from school, she waited for me. We always watched dramas together and did laundry together. These are ordinary things but she is the most influential person in my life.
She is the most influential person because she is a parent of nine people herself. She went through so much. My father talks about how he lived for so long, but she lived in this world now for seventy years. Yet, she is so generous and loving. She does not live with us anymore but still sends us Kimchi every year. She taught me how to be generous and also be a good sister to my younger brother. Her sisters, brothers, children and grandchildren may not realize, but I think her love influences so many of us. One day, I really wish to be like her.
This man, His Holiness the 145th, Dalai Lama is the leader of Tibet.
Studying in India, I made some Tibetan friends. They either lived in Nepal or
India where their grandparents escaped to from Tibet. My friends told me that the
stories of their grandparents escaping and they were all very shocking and
heart wrenching. They had to walk barefooted for months in the snow mountain;
many of them die on their way. Even through the adversity, there is a reason
why they tried so hard to run away. It is to keep the Tibetan culture alive. In
Tibet today, the Chinese people are trying to get rid of the Tibetan culture
and are bringing more and more Chinese culture into it. They are imprisoning
the Tibetan leaders and banning the spread of the culture.
Tibet is a distinct country with distinct culture and language. The only way to preserve their culture now is to leave the country and spreading and reproducing the culture outside. The religious leader that helps Tibetans outside to serve their purpose is His Holiness. A lot of young Tibetans have never been to Tibet or speak the language fluently and in my opinion, it is a big problem. In my school too, my friends who were Tibetans were born speaking in English, Hindi, or Nepali. They did speak in Tibetan at home, but living in a boarding school with such little Tibetan population, a lot of them have forgotten their roots. One day, His Holiness came to visit our school. It was a big deal. His Holiness travels around the world and is a global leader. The fact that he was coming to our school was a wish come true for many of my friends. However, they were also ashamed and afraid because they knew themselves that they have been losing touch with their root.
When the Dalai Lama came, he did not influence the Tibetans in the school but also the non-Tibetans. He gave us some incredible words of wisdom. The one most touching saying of his is that his “religion is Kindness.” I think this is so beautiful. If I were in his position, I would be so angry about everything. However, he was firm yet gentle. He works to spread the spirit and culture of the Tibetans. A lot of people still do not know about this nation called Tibet. However, I want to say that they are hurting. There are self-immolations and oppressions- the pain one cannot imagine. Please look up the Dalai Lama and beautiful nation of Tibet. Free Tibet!
The last influential person that I want to mention is Kenneth Bruscia. He is one of the first generation of music therapists. I came to hear his name in my music therapy class when we were assigned to read the “Bruscia Fundamentals.” Imagine how influential and knowledgeable one must be to have written a fundamental for a career! “Bruscia Fundamentals” is something that all music therapists should study and live by. Unsurprisingly, we had to have it printed and put it in our binder for future reference.
Kenneth Bruscia was a professor at the temple university. I applied there and was accepted. I almost went there until I realized it was in Philadelphia and was not sure about the location. It drives me crazy to think I might have met him if I did go there but I got to know he retired from his teaching job last year. According to biography on Temple university website, has received Lindback Award for Teaching, The Temple University Great Teacher Award, the Temple University Research Award, and the AMTA Research and Publication Awards which I think is a huge achievement. Right now, music therapy is still a new concept and major to the world. However, in the future, I believe he is going to be more well-known and perhaps be called the father of music therapy just as Wundt is called the “father of psychology.”
When my mother left the house for work, my aunt came and lived with us. She raised me since I was a baby till grade five; she is my second mother. She cooked the best food and always made sure I had breakfast. When I came back from school, she waited for me. We always watched dramas together and did laundry together. These are ordinary things but she is the most influential person in my life.
She is the most influential person because she is a parent of nine people herself. She went through so much. My father talks about how he lived for so long, but she lived in this world now for seventy years. Yet, she is so generous and loving. She does not live with us anymore but still sends us Kimchi every year. She taught me how to be generous and also be a good sister to my younger brother. Her sisters, brothers, children and grandchildren may not realize, but I think her love influences so many of us. One day, I really wish to be like her.


Tibet is a distinct country with distinct culture and language. The only way to preserve their culture now is to leave the country and spreading and reproducing the culture outside. The religious leader that helps Tibetans outside to serve their purpose is His Holiness. A lot of young Tibetans have never been to Tibet or speak the language fluently and in my opinion, it is a big problem. In my school too, my friends who were Tibetans were born speaking in English, Hindi, or Nepali. They did speak in Tibetan at home, but living in a boarding school with such little Tibetan population, a lot of them have forgotten their roots. One day, His Holiness came to visit our school. It was a big deal. His Holiness travels around the world and is a global leader. The fact that he was coming to our school was a wish come true for many of my friends. However, they were also ashamed and afraid because they knew themselves that they have been losing touch with their root.
When the Dalai Lama came, he did not influence the Tibetans in the school but also the non-Tibetans. He gave us some incredible words of wisdom. The one most touching saying of his is that his “religion is Kindness.” I think this is so beautiful. If I were in his position, I would be so angry about everything. However, he was firm yet gentle. He works to spread the spirit and culture of the Tibetans. A lot of people still do not know about this nation called Tibet. However, I want to say that they are hurting. There are self-immolations and oppressions- the pain one cannot imagine. Please look up the Dalai Lama and beautiful nation of Tibet. Free Tibet!


The last influential person that I want to mention is Kenneth Bruscia. He is one of the first generation of music therapists. I came to hear his name in my music therapy class when we were assigned to read the “Bruscia Fundamentals.” Imagine how influential and knowledgeable one must be to have written a fundamental for a career! “Bruscia Fundamentals” is something that all music therapists should study and live by. Unsurprisingly, we had to have it printed and put it in our binder for future reference.
Kenneth Bruscia was a professor at the temple university. I applied there and was accepted. I almost went there until I realized it was in Philadelphia and was not sure about the location. It drives me crazy to think I might have met him if I did go there but I got to know he retired from his teaching job last year. According to biography on Temple university website, has received Lindback Award for Teaching, The Temple University Great Teacher Award, the Temple University Research Award, and the AMTA Research and Publication Awards which I think is a huge achievement. Right now, music therapy is still a new concept and major to the world. However, in the future, I believe he is going to be more well-known and perhaps be called the father of music therapy just as Wundt is called the “father of psychology.”
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Kenneth Bruscia's biography from: https://www.temple.edu/boyer/about/people/kennethbruscia.asp